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Five tips for a Guys to avoid falling out with their girlfriends

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It true sometimes as a guy we find it hard and difficult to coupe with issue from a woman, but her are something you don’t know. Women are problematic and sometimes really hard to move with.

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Most of the times they are always at fault and only few times they own up to their fault and apologies buy you the guy who is the pilot of your relationship here are some tips that will avoid you from falling out with her

  • Understanding: Like we all know understanding is the mother of all interactions because if you don’t have a clear understanding of her defiantly you find it difficult to live with her
  • Knowing her do and don’t, likes and dislikes: “One man’s meat is another man’s poison” I may like eating in the bus while others may not like it so try to know what she hates doing and what she likes doing and always try to do what she likes just not to fall into her trap
  • Avoid simple mare augment: Argument can be can be annoying sometimes you just have to learn how to control it and let her win sometimes because they argue a lot and for a guy its annoying to coup with.
  • Tolerance and overlooking: letting it slide and letting it go down the drain doesn’t mean you are wrong or stupid but sometimes shows you are matured and value your relationship more than you Ego.
  • Always give answer to her questions a second thought: Ladies always judge and hold guys by their own words and sometimes it becomes a trap that guys fall into and always hard to come out.

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Girlfriend: Bae, what will you like to have for Dinner?

Boyfriend: I don’t know, anything

The I don’t know reply will lead you into serious issue because when you saying you don’t know, it means you will eat anything she prepares without complaining and that is not going to be cool. So I will suggest you giving a reply like “anything light” is just a perfect reply to her question.

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8 Ways of Building a Better Relationship

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8 Ways of Building a Better Relationship

Relationship goals….

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Love is perhaps our most powerful emotion, and the need to be in a loving relationship may be one of the strongest needs we have. Being in an intimate relationship makes us feel connected, not only to our partner, but also to the world at large. When our hearts are filled with love, we feel profoundly content and satisfied. We become more patient, more empathetic, kinder, gentler.

But personal intimacy doesn’t merely affect our emotional well-being. According to numerous scientific studies, the power of love directly affects our physical health, too, by boosting our immune system, improving our cardiovascular functioning, and increasing our life expectancy. “Love and intimacy are at the root of what makes us sick and what makes us well,”. “When you look at the scientific data, the need for love and intimacy is as important and basic as eating, breathing, and sleeping.” Here are tips to make a relationship a better one:

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1. Encourage your partner to be more open with you

Sharing more of your emotions with your partner and encouraging your partner to do the same with you will help strengthen your bond. Make it a habit to confide in each other every day. Some opening questions for confiding in your partner include:
“Remember when we used to go walking and talking around the neighborhood, walking the dogs together? Let’s do that tonight… How about it?”

“What happened yesterday between us didn’t go so well, and I want to try another way — can we start over, and this time I will take some deep breaths and listen more patiently. I also want to say what works better for me and find out what you are hoping for.”

2. Be considerate of each other’s needs

In order to move forward in your relationship, you will both need to learn how to understand each other’s needs. The best way to uncover what your partner needs, and let them know what you need, is to talk about it.

If you are not sure what your spouse wants or needs, the best way to find out is to ask questions and listen. If you still are not sure, ask more questions. For example, you could say something like, “I think that what you need from me is ________. Is that what you mean?”

3. Appreciate each other

Showing appreciation through sincere compliments is an important part of a healthy relationship. Make sure that you and your partner are aware of the importance of complimenting each other and that you both know how to do it well. Good compliments should not only be sincere and specific, they should also be phrased as an “I” statement rather than as a “you” statement. For example, if your partner cleans the kitchen, don’t say “You did a nice job of cleaning the kitchen.” Instead, say “I appreciate that you cleaned the kitchen.” Using I instead of you lets your partner know how you feel, not just that you noticed.

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4. Ask your partner to commit to change

If you decide that you are ready to move forward in your relationship with your partner, you should ask your partner to promise you that they will not follow the same pattern of behavior that led to the affair. Ask your partner to articulate or even write out what that behavior includes and commit to change.

5. Establish consequences to deal with the possibility of another affair

Since there is a possibility that your partner may cheat again, you should work together to establish consequences for another affair. These consequences may include things like divorce or other repercussions. You may want to get these consequences in writing and work with a lawyer to make them legally binding.

6. Get Physical

Physical intimacy is a natural — and healthy — extension of a relationship. Our best sexual intentions are often put to rest, however, as we collapse into an exhausted heap at the end of the day. Instead, you and your partner need to consciously commit to turning up the heat. Leave the dishes in the sink, turn the laptop off, and just do it! Set the mood with the sensual music, and light some calming aromatherapy candles or incense. Learn to communicate your loving energy through touch.

7. Listen Carefully

Being an attentive listener lets your partner know that his or her thoughts and feelings are important to you. Moreover, good listening encourages partners “to open up and be willing to share,” is not just to “hear” what your partner is saying, but to be truly “present,” having a heartfelt desire to understand what is being said and listening without being judgmental.

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8. Know when to end the relationship

This is the last stage,nobody pray for it,if things don’t improve despite all of your best efforts and the help of marriage counseling, you may have to accept that the relationship cannot be repaired. Signs that the relationship may be beyond repair include:

• Constant fighting..

• Inability to connect with your partner.

• Inability to empathize with or receive empathy from your partner.

• Hurt and anger that does not subside with time.

• Inability to forgive your partner

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“My husband’s girlfriend gave me ₦1.5M” – Nigerian lady seeks for advise

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So hilarious as Social media relationship consult Joro Olumofin took to social media to post an email he received from a lady who is seeking for advise on whether to return the ₦1.5M her husband’s girlfriend gave to her to start her business.

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Hello Joro, my husband is cheating. Yes. He is cheating and he lost his job last month. I confronted him and he confessed. He begged me not to tell his parents because they want to help him get a new job or so. Now the issue is this. I needed 2M to start a business. My husband gave me 1.5M in February.

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Joro He said it was his girlfriend who gave him the money and he told her it was for me to start my business. He showed me messages where they spoke about me. My hands fell Joro. I don’t no to be angry or what. He said he can’t stop talking to her until he pays her.

Joro should I pay her the money out of pride and put my business on hold or should I use this money. Because I really need it. I don’t understand why my husbands girlfriend will support my business. I am confused Joro. Whatdo you think I should do? Joro I am open to your personal advice and your fans advice on this issue.

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20 reasons why you should break up with your girlfriend – Joro Olumofin

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Popular Nigerian relationship consult Joro Olmofin has taken to social media to enlighten young men on the 20 reasons why they should break up with their girlfriend.

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1️. f she can’t use N5,000 to cook decent meals from Friday – Sunday. (A Full weekend)
2️. If she has more than 3 married men as “besto”, “fwends” or “my G”
3️. If your girlfriend demands a gift on every birthday
4️. If she borrows money from different guys without asking you
5️. If she doesn’t call your mother on Mother’s Day. .
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6️. If your girlfriend has been to Dubai 3 times from 2018 till date and she doesn’t have any income
7️. If you have given your girlfriend up to N500,000 / $1400 and she’s still broke or doesn’t have a business.
8️. If she is always commenting on known Yahoo boys pictures and Billionaires pictures on IG : “Yas zaddy, i tap into ur grace sir, check ur DM”
9️. If she doesn’t know what you do to make money. E.g she knows you’re a banker but doesn’t know what department you’re in
10. If she takes Postinor 2 like M&K every month

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11. If she idolizes runs girls & copies their IG post and Snapchat. “She May be an apprentice soon”
1️2. If she has cheated on you in the past 12 months
1️3. f she’s a student & you can’t locate her on weekends
1️4. If she has never bought you anything apart from perfume, belt & boxers on your birthday. E.g she should buy you books & inspirational dvds
1️5️. If she spends N40,000 on makeup every month & she’s not a makeup artist or making money from the makeup.
1️6. If shes always commenting on celebrity pages saying “ Bless me”. .

1️7. If more than 5 night club bouncers know her name in your city
1️8. If she would rather go to the cinema than mid week service
1️9. If she doesn’t let you wipe or clean her up after sex.
2️0. If she gets violent. Trashes your car, assaults, burns your clothes. .

*If your girlfriend is guilty of more than 5 of these and not willing to change, you should consider reentering the market*

 

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