The journey of relationships is all filled with ups and downs but this is one aspect that kills relationship it’s no doubt that you won’t feel comfortable when your partner is Snitching up on you reason been that we feel they have lost trust in us and would want to know our every moves every day and times will literally the person snitching on the other person always thinks that he or she is showing love, securing his or her relationship but no he or she isn’t.
When it comes to being snitching in relationships you don’t feel free to do things and live the life of their own for instance
Tom and jane are in a romantic affair but each times when jane is away and not picking up her phone be beginning to feel restless with the thought that she is with someone else or she is trying to do something stupid Tom began to call her friends, families and neighbour asking her where about.
The bitter truth is tom actually thinks he is showing love and acting out of one, no tom isn’t he is just making her feel bad when people calls her to say your boyfriend just called me and asking your where about, and when tom and jane finally see each other she now has to answer question about her where about like what happened to your phone? When you noticed your phone was dead why didn’t you try to reach me? How many minutes did you spend at each place you went to? What are the names of people you meet today? Seriously the questions are becoming a quarry and she will begin to feel you are thinking she is seeing someone else and which is not.
The best antidote for snitching up are
- When he or she seems out of reach keep yourself busy reading a novel, watching a movie or something
- Don’t think about him or her focus on what you are doing?
- And lastly when you finally see him or her asking only these three question what happened to your phone? How are they doing? Where have they Being?
Asking to many question is not indeed important or you can only just randomly ask one question which is can you please summarize your day for me?